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How We Experience Race Part 4: Apathy

Tod and I talk about some specific stats and how to keep moving forward…


How We Experience Race

I’m here with my brother, Tod Ewing, talking about how our generations interact with race differently and how some things are quite the same…enjoy!


Complexity and Storytelling

Aaron and I conclude our conversation on Storytelling, Dichotomies and Complexity with some reflections of character development and archetypes used in stories. Hope you’ve enjoyed this series, and more to come soon! Enjoy!


More on Storytelling

Here Aaron and I continue to go into storytelling and how dichotomies can make stories less valuable, and some commentary on Oak’s dress…


Popular Media

Aaron and I talk a little about news media and music genres…Nirvana…you know…Enjoy!

 


Perception Part 2

Here Aaron closes out this portion of the conversation from the last post…next week, we go into news and storytelling!


How We See the World: Comfort with Ambiguity Part 2

Yates and I continue our conversation from last post and talk about how we try to separate parts of our lives…perhaps to our folly…Enjoy!


Finance: Prioritize Your Resources

Colby and I continue our conversation on money and various ways to navigate finances. We now get into approaches to banking and other financial institutions…Enjoy!


How We See the World: Comfort with Ambiguity

Aaron and I continue our discussion into the realm of perceptions of success and failure…Enjoy!…but as you enjoy, consider these questions:

Where do elements of ambiguity come up in your experience on the day-to-day?

How do you reconcile such ambiguity with what you’ve learned about things being black or white?

How can we nurture each other along to think beyond feelings of failure, limitation or weakness as we move along in this learning process?


Finance: Identifying One’s Path

In a continuation from our last Finance post, Colby talks a little about finding one’s path, and ways that one can approach career and education…Enjoy!


Finance: Education and Purpose

In this short post, Colby and I discuss approaching higher education, and the implications of choices going in…

What would you do differently if you had it to do over? If you’re at the point of transition from high school to college, what’s your sense of purpose for the next few years?


Finance: Accumulating Wealth and Self-Reliance

Here, Colby and I have a back and forth about how we look at money(as a means or an end), and explore some possible healthy postures surrounding gaining more wealth and saving where it counts.

To my atheist and agnostic family: God gets mentioned here. It’s not to exclude you or create discomfort…that’s just where we’re coming from on that. There are other valid sources of inspiration to serve one’s fellow man, I know.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts. Enjoy!


Finance: Wealth and Poverty Part 2

Here, Colby and I finish out this part of the Finance conversation, which is a continuation of Wealth and Poverty and Religion and Culture. It has been quite fun hearing folks’ thoughts on these last couple posts! Enjoy!


Finance: Wealth and Poverty

Here, I go into some of the postures and attitudes surrounding the conversation on wealth and poverty, which is a continuation from the last video post on Religion and Culture…Enjoy!


Finance in the US: Religion and Culture

Here Colby describes some of the influencing ideas that shaped the way the US approaches work and sharing resources…


Finance – Avoiding Debt Part 3: Credit Cards

Here we have a continuation of “Avoiding Debt”, Part 1 and Part 2, dealing specifically with credit cards. Colby and I explore some of the implications of credit to one’s future…


Finance – Avoiding Debt Part 2: Education

Continuation from Part 1. Colby goes further into the issue of going into debt and things to consider regarding pursuing higher education and its costs…


Finance: Avoiding Debt Part 1

Colby and I begin a conversation on some elements of our financial experience that empower or hinder us, and habits that might improve that condition…


A Year in Review…

So, here we are…A year after this space was carved out for you, I and anyone else who dared to explore the world of the unknown…

Where “What you don’t know that you don’t know” reigns firmly and lovingly. I’ll say for my part that this year has been gorgeous in so many ways, and has also provided serious signs of room for growth. Gorgeous because there was a start, and gorgeous because there really have been some good conversations that at least I was able to have with some of you who I might not have otherwise. I got to hear some views that were different from my own. I got to interview some really fun folks on camera and prepare for more opportunities to engage in similar dialogue with others…Challenging because at the end of the day there are very few things that we can presume to say with too much confidence that we “know”…and not everyone is ready to accept that…

I hope this year brings more. I hope to get to know some folks who visit better as we interact in this strangely intimate yet distant and cold space…

So I ask this of you…what would you want to hear more about? What themes and subjects would you like to see more of here? Anything that we should go deeper into?

I am looking to this New Year dawning to bring forth beautiful fruit, and I pray to keep my sights on my intention and purpose. I thank you for joining me on that path…

Much love…


A Little More on Race

Greetings all,
I’m normally reluctant to approach a loaded topic that easily becomes divisive, but I do want to open this space up to explore on it…

I will say up front that no conversation on race(among MANY other topics) is complete, and would be poorly served to be concluded with shallow and superficial treatments on what the deeper roots and causes are of the funny part of our collective experience that we call race.

Here’s a small bit from a conversation I had with a friend, where he asked me a pointed question about my experience with race:

Below are a couple of video posts from Jay Smooth which speak very well to some of the nuances around race that we should reflect on: (more…)


The Individual and the Community: A Short Conversation on Race

Tyree lets me talk his ear off on some thoughts I have about race and prejudice…last one with Tyree coming soon!


The Individual and the Community Part 3

Tyree and I get a little more concrete about the concepts from the previous posts: Part 1 and Part 2. What stories do you have regarding these concepts?


Individualism

Post originally published at Nineteen Months

e·go (g, gn. pl. e·go)
1. The self, especially as distinct from the world and other selves
2. In psychoanalysis, the division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and is most in touch with external reality
3 a. An exaggerated sense of self-importance; conceit
b. Appropriate pride in oneself; self-esteem
[New Latin, from Latin, I; see eg in Indo-European roots. Sense 2, translation of German Ich, a special use of ich, I, as a psychoanalytic term.]

The individual units that make up society, each one of us, play a concrete role in how our social reality is shaped. If we buy organic, even the Wal-Marts of the world take notice and change or add to what they stock up on. If we respond to large banks’ taking advantage of people through exorbitant charges by moving your business to local banks and credit unions, the Bank of Americas of the world will trip over themselves to change some long-standing policies. In so many areas of social reality, each individual’s decision makes a difference, and the differences that I’ve thus far described are only economic. Companies like Google have designed a different kind of workplace environment from many companies of their size to improve the creative atmosphere for those doing the innovating, rather than stuffing their employees into bland cell-like cubicles. All this demonstrated to me the power of the individual to shape reality.

The other side of this reality for the individual, though, is what I’ve heard described as “unfettered individualism”, which I understand to be closely related to ideas like “survival of the fittest” and “may the best man win”…a mindset that sees “my driveway”, “my yard”, “my job”, “my space” and the like. In short, ways that we’ve managed to teach ourselves and each other in this country to think of ourselves as …Read the entire post here


The Individual and the Community Part 2

Tyree and I continue our discussion from the previous post about each individual’s walk within a community…


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